If you both are shy, somebody got to break the ice.

I read in a forum today…

“So I’m actually really bad at human contact (lol) and this girl I’m dating is too. I’m just kind of a quiet guy and she is a quiet lady and I really want this to work out.

We are not good at talking to each other because we just started going out.

Any help would be appreciated.

Is there an easier way to start a conversation?”

— SovietPickles

That has to really make you both feel awkward. Complete utter silence. I guess there’s a lot of smiling going on then. lol

Don’t worry, your struggles can be fixed.

Here’s what you need to do before you’re next date.

Figure out exactly what your goal is with this woman and then talk about it to see if she’s on the same page.

Do you want to date her for fun and nothing serious?

Do you want to have a friend with benefits without the emotional attachment?

Do you just want a cool friend to hang out with every now and then?

Having an end goal with any woman is the first step of starting great conversations because you direct it to what you want to know about her.

Women love to talk even shy girls, you just got to know how to start her engine.

So what’s a good solution for you?

I found lots of ways to start conversations that’s fun, intriguing and informative that works (WAY better than any of these so-called “magic pick-up lines” that you just say and a woman suppose to drop her panties right there on the spot).

I spent months cataloging what worked.

And, even more important, what didn’t work.

As a result, I can start a fascinating conversation in minutes that will have a woman spilling her guts to me about what I want to know about her and she not even know it.

And, I wrote down all the tricks and techniques that worked in my “Dating Wisdom Newsletter”.

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Michael Thompson
Dating Consultant