Do you think sex is overrated?

I read in a forum today…

“My girlfriend and I have been together for 2 years. She’s a sweet person. She was shy at first but started to open up.

She tried to avoid me at the beginning of our relationship.

She would not let me kiss or hug her.

She said the last guy she was with hurt her badly. So we took it slow and I gained her trust.

Almost a year in she still didn’t want me to hug or kiss her.

She didn’t want to have sex. She didn’t want me to know where she lived or what she did.

I really love her so I wanted to know why she was acting like this. She basically told me she was raped and lost her virginity to rape. I felt so bad for her.

We cried together and I told her I’ll be here for her. Eventually, she got comfortable and we worked our way up to sex.

The biggest issue is she refuses to let me do anything to her. She always does things to me.

She just lays there not interacting with me at all.

I’m just frustrated she thinks sex isn’t about her too.

I want to please her just as much as she pleases me. I don’t*know what to do.

I always start sex and end sex.”

— DragonTattoo

It’s tragic what happened to her, but you are going to be miserable for a long time my friend.

It took you a whole year to find out what was wrong with her and now that you spent so much time gaining her trust, you’re trapped.

You’re trapped in something where you not happy at all and you’re not strong enough to let her go because you will feel guilty.

But you are sentencing yourself to a life sentence of misery and here’s why I say that.

She’s never going to get comfortable if it took 2 freaking years to have sex with her.

Here’s what you should do if you think you can turn things around with her, (which is going to be difficult) but since you’re trying here goes.

You should recommend that she take counseling to figure out how she can break that barrier from her past and move on with you sexually.

And if that doesn’t work.

You really have a decision to make, will it be in love and bad sex or cut loose?

Good luck with that.

Anyways, if you decide to start over and want to learn about the darkest secret and of course any baggage a woman got tucked away in her duffel bag.

Then I highly recommend my Dating Wisdom Newsletter. It will help you uncover critical information and whether are not you and her are sexually compatible.

Sex is the most second important thing in a relationship after finances.

And if you want to really be happy, you and her have to be in harmony sexually.

I don’t care how much you love each other if you’re not, either she’s going to cheat
or you are.

It’s going to happen.

Sex relieves the biggest health issue we encounter in our everyday life called “STRESS”.

And if the sex is boring or not adventurous how you like it, you are going to be distressed like my friend above.

Don’t take it for granted the importance of sexual compatibility.

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Michael Thompson
Dating Consultant