A reader asks…

“Michael, I’m currently a member of several dating websites paid and free.

My list consist of Eharmony, Elite Singles, POF, Ok Cupid and Tinder. My profiles are full and includes lots of pictures.

Despite me sending out lots of messages, contact requests and paying for premium memberships.

I have yet to get any replies. Makes me feel like the ugliest guy in the world.

Do they actually work or am I just wasting my money and time?”

— Dan S.

Thanks for the question Dan.

My personal opinion is no they don’t work and you are just wasting your time and money.

I’m not saying this to be bias. I’m saying this from personal experience.

These dating sites promises and sell you on the dream that they can help you find dates, but to me I feel it’s just a big o’l scam.

Why?

It’s too many out-dated profiles, not enough local searches, no filters to block people writing you that you are not interested in and then you have the foreign scammers.

Who knows how they found your profile being that you are not even the same country as them.

That’s why dating websites doesn’t really works.

I stop putting my faith in dating websites and if I was you, I would too.

What you should be doing is putting faith in yourself and just go out and meet woman.

Nothing beats a real-life face to face meet and greet.

You eliminate the chances of dealing with out-dated profiles, long hours of writing messages that gets no replies, being catfish by someone that is just as low self-esteem as you and of course, wasting money on pricey memberships that’s no good as a blank piece of paper.

It’s not hard at all to do especially when you sign up to read Michael’s Dating Wisdom Newsletter here:

http://SeductiveBrother.com/Signup

Michael Thompson