Do you really need women approval?

I read in a forum today…

“I have been on two dates with a very attractive but quiet lady. On our first date, she described herself as being reserved and introverted. She travels a lot for work and works very long hours.

She takes a very long time to respond to my texts and I thought I had been ghosted on two occasions as she took over 24 hours to respond.

She doesn’t seem like a very expressive person and is really hard to read.

I’m having difficulty knowing if she is having a good time.

We have a third date planned which involves a dinner and amateur comedy night.

I have such a hard time reading her, would it be alright to check-in with her and ask her if she is having a good time periodically?

I’m not sure if she is interested in me or not, is it too early to be very direct with her?

At what point can I inquire what is she looking for such as casual dating or something
serious?

After the third date activities, is it too early to invite her to my place if she the taking it slow type(not expecting sex but maybe a make-out session)?”

— ExposedBrick

Please pay attention to all the answers I’m about to write and do with it what you want.

To answer his first question:

If you have to ask her if she’s having a good time, then she’s not and you aren’t either.

To answer his second question:

If she wasn’t interested you, you wouldn’t be going on dates or she wouldn’t find time in her busy schedule (that you already know of) to write you back and you should be direct from the beginning.

To answer his third question:

Whatever you are looking for with that woman you should always make it clear before you even go on a date, that way everybody is on the same page.

To answer his final question:

It’s never too early to ask a woman back to your place, you just got to get her comfortable enough around you to do it.

That’s all I have to say about that.

If you don’t want to go through constantly struggling to figure out what you should be doing on a date to make sure she’s talking and having fun.

Or never being scared to take charge and stop seeking approval first.

Then check out my Dating Wisdom Newsletter and learn how I keep women interested, laughing and ready to make out with me. (it will work for you too)

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Michael Thompson
Dating Consultant