Think about your question first.

I read in a forum today…

“I’m asking this to women. What is your expectation on who should be initiating text messages early on?

If I find that I’m the one initiating every text is that a bad sign?

Seems like it to me.”

— Jdesey

Am I the only one or did he just not answer his own question?

Look, the only expectations you should be worrying about is yours.

Here’s what I mean:

If you text a girl and she doesn’t respond in a timely manner that fits your expectation, then you have a choice to text her again or not.

If you feel that you are the only one making an effort, and her effort is not meeting your expectation, then you have a choice again to keep trying or not.

Don’t ask another woman about the obvious, instead, you should be trying to replace her with one that does meet your expectation.

Never lower your expectations for a woman just because she’s beautiful, always stick to them until you find one that exceeds them.

In lament terms, “Grow some fucking balls and stand up for what you want.”

And now to business.

If you want to learn how to always have enough options to find a woman that meets your expectation and never have you guessing.

I encourage you to read about my Dating Wisdom Newsletter. You don’t need to ask women what to do, that makes you look weak and unsure of yourself.

You must be confident and a leader.

Women love a man that they can follow, not one she has to hold his hand when things aren’t going his way.

So it’s time to get to work.

I won’t lead you astray, boy scout honor.

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Michael Thompson
Dating Consultant