…Or is she just wasting your time?
I read in a forum today…
“Met a girl last night, she texted me first this morning saying it was really nice meeting me and everything. I ask what she’s doing tomorrow night and say “what are you up to tomorrow night?
Want to get some drinks at XX at like 8/9?
She says she has to work until 11:30 (she’s a waitress).
So I ask her, what’s your schedule like for the rest of the week?
I also don’t mind hanging out late because I don’t work mornings. Haven’t heard back.
Seriously?”
— Grey40
I had my few like that and it kind of make you ask yourself, why she even bother giving you her number if she’s not going to answer?
It’s frustrating as hell.
But why does it make us feel like we did something wrong when we haven’t?
The truth is…it has nothing with you doing something wrong or even her.
Your pride and confidence just took a huge hit because it was at an all-time high when you met her and she took your phone and gave you her number.
Here’s what you should do now:
Go out and meet another woman, don’t sit by your phone waiting to see if she’s going to reply back.
She may or she may not.
Don’t let her control your time.
As a matter of fact,
You should always meet at least two women and get their numbers to see which one is more qualified, and interested in you.
Especially if you don’t have patience if she has a busy schedule.
That’s why your first conversation with a woman is so important.
You need to find out as much as you need about her so when things like this happen, either you understand why or you can just cut her off.
All that she has a pretty smile, nice body, and a great personality is good, but the most important thing is finding out what’s under it all.
What is she looking for…is it the same thing as me?
How busy is her schedule…will she have time for me?
What is she doing with her life…is she someone I can get serious with and build something long-term?
This is the stuff you need to be able to find out within the first 10 minutes of your first conversation because it will make anything else after that relevant or irrelevant.
This is what I teach you how to do in my Dating Wisdom Newsletter. Being able to have a conversation with women that is funny, interesting and informative to find out the important things that make the things after works.
You should NEVER have to ask if a woman is into you or what she’s looking for after you successfully get her number.
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Michael Thompson
Dating Consultant