Making assumptions is like a bullet breaking through your skull.

I read in a forum today…

“I asked a girl on another date and she sent me this:

“I’d like to see you again, It’s only been two dates so it’s hard for me to promise anything at this point. I do feel like you probably like me more than I like you at this point, and sometimes that can weird me out a little.

Yes, I canceled Sunday, but tomorrow was never a set thing and my skin is not in good shape right now so I think it’s for the best we hold off.”

Is this one a lost cause or do you think maybe she’s being legit?”

— Grey40

Take a deep breath for a moment, you’re a little too anxious right now. You are about to sabotage your progress with this woman.

Clearly, she likes you, but you’re acting like you’re ready to propose to her right
now and that can start to freak her out.

You are already showing signs of insecurity, desperateness and lack of trust.

But I don’t blame you for that, I blame your mind.

It’s probably been awhile since you made it past two dates, actually made out and the girl responded back to your text message the next day.

So to not let you ruin a good thing you have going on…I’ll share with you what I would do in your situation.

I would reply back with a message saying:

“Ok, sounds great. yeah, I might like you a little more at this point, but we’ll see how things pan out. You might can’t keep your hands off me within a week or so lol. Hope you get better soon. “

That’s it.

She doesn’t feel comfortable being around you yet with whatever skin problem she’s having but eventually it will get to that point if you don’t screw it up before it get there.

Anyways,

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You learn to have options in dating. You know, when one cancels the other is available.

It keeps your mind off worrying if she likes me, or is she squandering my time.

You can avoid wasting money on expensive dates, intricate plans or fancy dinners and enjoy no pressure dating that is fun, exciting and full of intimacy.

Making assumptions whether she’s interested or not should never happen. That’s something you should know immediately.

If you make out with a woman and still have questions, you’re not doing something right.

Once you figure what it is…you will be a bad man.

Maybe my unusual tips and methods might be what you looking for.

Hey they work. That’s all I can say about it.

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Michael Thompson
Dating Consultant