Are you selling yourself short?

I read in a forum today…

“Got a girlfriend at the moment but have yet introduced her to my parents. I knew her for a while.

My nosy parents would ask what she does for a living and I’ll tell them she works in a factory making clothes?

Does she drive they ask and I’ll say no. They would ask what her parents do and I’ll say one works at restaurant and another works at factory.

They don’t speak English.

My parents would ask me why she lived in Canada since the age of 8 and she’s 30 now and doing a low end job and why she can’t drive or not have a drivers license yet?

They are telling me to find someone who is smarter than me, strong, and can help me and provide family and give value and benefit to our current household or why even marry her.

They also want a guy who’s also a successful white collar.

I also got low end job.

The thing is, if a girl has a high end job aka lawyer and drives a BMW why would she date me?”

— Joel

I used to think just like you. Why would a successful and beautiful woman want to date a guy like me?

I don’t make a lot of money.

I don’t drive a fancy car and I don’t live in a nice big house.

The problem with thinking that way, is that you’re limiting your own potential.

That’s where momma comes in at.

She knows best, she see things different than you.

While you are settling for a life as far as your eyes can see, she’s telling you to reach for the stars.

She knows you can have it all, you just need a push and the right woman to help you see it for yourself.

Remember, she raise you.

Instead of  using your parents advice as an insult, you should let it inspire you.

After all, don’t you want to feel proud about the woman your introduce to your mother?

I know I do.

To help you start unlocking potential you don’t realize you actually have, I created my Dating Wisdom Newsletter.

Even working at a low-end job, you can date a lawyer (if you wanted too) if not, you still could do a lot better.

The dating game has changed, women have changed.

They’re more independent now with great careers, but you know what haven’t changed?

Every woman still wants someone that appreciates them, motivates them, supports them emotionally and of course love them.

That’s just how it is.

So don’t let a woman job title defer you from pursuing her.

You never know what y’all have in common.

As much as I hate to admit it, momma knows best and you should really listen.

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Michael Thompson
Dating Consultant