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I read in a forum today…

“I’m currently a 20 year old college student, originally from Seattle area but move to Wyoming for school. The funny thing is, I never saw myself here.

I had planned to enlist in the military from a pretty early age (since it was kinda a family tradition, and just something I really wanted to do) but my poor vision stopped me.

So now I’m in the middle of nowhere trying to get a degree in Homeland Security.

I’ve had this on my mind for a while and can’t ignore it anymore.

I’ve been on this earth for twenty years, and in that time I never had a relationship with a girl.

Never kissed one.

Never held hands with one.

I don’t believe I’m totally hideous, I’m average build, maybe a little dorky but not revolting.

I feel like every passing day I’m further away from having someone.

I can’t imagine a girl wanting to be with me, holding my hands or smiling when I call them.

I feel that I can’t contribute anything to a relationship.

I can’t drive a car yet (because of my vision), I’m working a low-paying job that barely keeps my head above water.

Everything I wanted to do has been ripped away because of my disability.

My mind tells me every day that I’m weak and undeserving of being in a relationship.

Why would someone want to be my girlfriend when I can’t even go anywhere that’s outside walking distance without a ride or can’t read a book without sticking it three inches from my nose?

How do I get courage to ask a girl out?”

— Shiloh253

Thanks for this amazing question Shiloh253.

If every woman in the world based a man on things he had or didn’t have, their wouldn’t be a lot of relationships in this world today.

Of course you want to provide an amazing lifestyle for you and whoever you with.

But what do you want to base the relationship foundation on?

There are many men in this world that had nothing, have a disability and still don’t drive a car.

Are you going to let those things cripple you for the rest of your life?

Go talk to women, show them your personality and let them fall for who you are as a person, not what you have or don’t have.

Want to easily learn how to naturally ask women out in a way that’s fun, comfortable…and actually works?

Check out my Dating Wisdom Newsletter for some straight up gangster tricks to make even beautiful women (outside of your league beautiful) give up their digits in seconds.

Inside you’ll discover tons of methods to get women interested, qualify them and pinpoint the ‘must have’ qualities for your perfect partner.

And if you’re too busy to go out and find a woman, I sometimes share my favorite tricks for improving your social life.

I think you’ll find fascinating …(it’s crazy if you think you’re going to find your perfect partner on some dating site).

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Michael Thompson
Dating Consultant