Do you wait too long to make your move?

I read in a forum today…

“So me and this girl have been talking for a few weeks now and I feel like all of a sudden she has grown distant. Like we went on a couple of dates and we got frisky with each other multiple times but never had sex.

We have been talking a lot throughout the day, mostly thru text.

Now she seems less interested all of a sudden.

Not to sure what happened.

Maybe I should call her idk.

Looking for some advice.

Trying to not come off strong just curious.”

— Yolosloth

I don’t get when guys say “I don’t want to come off too strong to her.” Either you like her and want to date her or you just want to fuck her.

Just be honest with yourself, because here’s the problem when you are unsure about things.

You hesitate.

When you start hesitating, you start second-guessing yourself and making a whole lot of dumb assumption while on the other hand leaving the woman guessing what it is you actually want with her.

And when she’s still unclear after you and her made out a few times, she rather just ease away so she can protect herself.

Women are very emotional beings, so it’s best to be upfront with her about your intentions. 

There will only be two outcomes…either she on-board or she’s not.

If she’s not, keep it moving.

I use to feel the same way before, that if I became more direct with women that they would think I’m desperate, needy and a complete jerk.

It’s the total opposite even if she’s not looking for what you are and she appreciates the honesty.

I understand that you and me are too different people and that you might not be at that point yet where you feel comfortable with being direct with women.

So that’s why I develop a system that let’s you do it in a more conservative fun way with conversation.

I know I told you this a thousand times already, but “WOMEN LOVE TO TALK” and once you get good at getting them to talk about what you want to know, then you will be unstoppable.

My system teaches you how to use your uniqueness, your own personality because you want to attract women that likes you despite your material status but also sees the potential in you.

I must warn you, that it does not contains:

…magic words

…cheesy pick-up lines

…refurbished and outdated techniques

It shows you how to use your originality to stand out from your competition.

Anyways,

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Michael Thompson
Dating Consultant