Don’t you hate when you lose a girl to a complete jerk?
I read in a forum today…
“I have gone through the notion that women want to be with assholes.
They are with a guy because they either have problems themselves or just got into a controlling relationship and can’t get out.
My concern is that the assholes of the world come off as good at first and then turn into the monster he already been the whole time.
They are ruining the dating pool for genuinely nice guys like me.
Is it possible to find women that still believe in what seems to be outdated philosophies and old world values like chivalry, courting, honesty, trust and long lasting true love?”
There are plenty of women that ABSOLUTELY love a man opening the door for them, buying them flowers just because or not afraid to hold their hands in front of their homeboys.
And there single.
The question is where are they hiding?
In plain sight and you pass them every single day and don’t even open your mouth to say “hello.”
Nice guys are losing to the jerks for one reason, well actually two.
And here they are:
The jerks are not afraid to talk to women, even if he’s intimidated by her.
The nice guy immediately shy away when he feels intimidated by a woman.
The jerks are not boring, they are not afraid to use their personality.
The nice guy is confused and doesn’t know what to say or how to keep a woman interested long enough to finish a statement.
So you see why nice guys like you are losing on the dating scene.
But if you want to really make a comeback, this is what you need to do.
Find a way to feel comfortable being yourself around women no matter how stunning and intimidated she makes you feel and let your personality shine bright.
When you start doing that, you will put yourself back into the game.
Of course, you still can’t be boring though.
If you can really be interesting to a woman, the doors will open up for you in ways you wouldn’t believe.
They love to stroke their ego, feel important but they also want a man that can challenge them.
Not in a bad way, but they want to feel you can take charge of a conversation at any time and have something other than sex to talk about.
And what better way to help her stroke that ego than challenging her mind.
Finding out what makes her so special and why she would make the perfect partner for a great man. (you)
I know you probably don’t have a clue how to do this right now.
That’s why I’m teaching you how to do it in my Dating Wisdom Newsletter.
I will help you learn how to really intrigue a woman within the first 5 minutes of any conversation.
Don’t let you being a nice guy stop you from getting the woman you want.
When you start using my newsletter as your guide today.
You no longer have to feel left out, extinct or dull and enjoy being sought out, eye-catching and more appealing to women.
You will start to forget about the women that avoided you for jerks that’s disrespectful, ruling and insecure and start meeting women that gravitate too, desire and is anxious to find a nice guy like you.
So don’t you worry about the jerks of the world anymore.
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Michael Thompson
Dating Consultant