Did she go spend it with another man?

I read in a forum today…

“So I’ve been dating a woman for a couple months now, everything is going great, we’ve slept together, I stay at her place on weekends etc

However, she’s gone a trip this week to visit a female friend of hers (5 days) which just happens to be during Valentines day.

I have no way of verifying she is where she says she is and if she is in fact with her female friend.

She says she made these plans before she met me at a time when they were both single (it’s at a resort).

I’ve tried to play it cool and told her to have a good time.

I said to have fun and don’t feel the need to check in with me, just enjoy the trip and I’ll see her when she gets back.

But truth is, I’ve only known this woman 2 months .. and I only know what she’s told me.

To date she’s never lied to me about anything (that I’m aware of) but still .. gone for 5 days during Valentines?

It’s hard for me not to wonder a little bit if she’s lying ..

If she’s going to cheat it’ll happen regardless if I worry about it or not so I try to keep my mind on other things … but the mind wanders sometimes …

Am I crazy to trust her this much?

Am I just setting myself up to get hurt?”

— Gbe2015

I hope your Valentine’s day is not like his.

Anyways,

I would have to question things about our relationship and seriously her priorities. To bail out on what would be our first Valentines’s day together to sit up in a resort and drink mai tai’s with her friends who probably are still single is a red flag to me.

Think about this for a second…

…if it’s not a funeral or wedding (something you can go her with) then I don’t see why she couldn’t reschedule the trip (especially if she didn’t pay for it yet).

It’s freaking Valentines’s day, what woman don’t want to be with her man or lover? (maybe in your situation)

Here’s what I would do.

I would not call to see how she’s doing or nothing. I would let her call first and see just how much she’s into me and if I don’t talk to her everyday… I would let her go.

You should too.

And if you need to find a replacement for her today, than check out my Dating Wisdom Newsletter. I’ll show you how to date a woman that will always put you above everything else.

There’s no reason to be second in her life.

You want a woman that want to share special days with you, create lasting memories and of course someone you can trust.

Every beautiful face ain’t trustworthy and just because you had sex a few times doesn’t makes her loyal to you.

But her actions will speak high volumes.

So if you don’t want to have to second guess everything a girl you with do, feel unimportant to her and always come after her friends and drinks.

Then allow me to show you how to instantly find women that will not only be into you but will give you that special treatment you want on days like today.

So if you are still single and want to go out and mingle (which shouldn’t be hard at all today), find you a nice little Valentine’s, then subscribe today and go get you a sexy girl number tonight:

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Michael Thompson
Dating Consultant