Is she really liking me or just my tips?
I read in a forum today…
“She is a bartender and a hair stylist. From the beginning, we got along and she knows I’m interested but is content, doesn’t like change, and doesn’t do relationships.
I know she does but is just to hurt or guarded to try right now.
She seems to want to be just friends with maybe more or is just being nice to me for the tips.
But I really believe she isn’t and I like her for more than looks or I would be fine with the buds thing.
We talk on the phone more than anything. And see each other on the weekends at the bar.
She even cut my hair before and invited me out with a friend.
I have been hurt in the past and I have guarded myself.
I fight the urge every day to just delete her number and stop thinking about it but honestly, she seems worth the trouble.
I just want the chance to get to really know her an see if things could be more.
— Jscar
If only we could always have what we want everything will be grand. But in reality, we can’t and it’s cool.
Doesn’t mean we can’t get it from someplace else.
And that’s how it’s going to be with women.
You find one that you are so mesmerized by but you can’t have her.
It’s a hurtful feeling at first, but eventually, you’ll move on…or not.
Just remember this and it will save you a whole lot heartbreak.
You can’t make someone change into what you want, they have to do it willingly themselves.
Trying to change someone is harder than you think, just look how hard it is for you to change certain things about yourself.
Look if she doesn’t want what you are after with her, let her go.
Because as soon as you do, within the next few minutes another one will walk right in and help you forget about her.
That’s if you let her go.
I know that can be hard especially when you don’t have too many options to choose from.
That’s why I recommend you take a look at my Dating Wisdom Newsletter.
It will teach you how to attract women that are looking for exactly what you are looking for.
No need to try to change them.
It’s much easier and a great deal of fun.
If a woman says she doesn’t want something, don’t try to say she does and figure out why she doesn’t.
It’s too many women available to bash your head against the wall until blood is seeping into your eyes.
Inside my Dating Wisdom Newsletter you’ll discover:
* How to avoid feeling like you just don’t deserve a beautiful woman and finally find the confidence you need to fill up your calendar with hot dates
* Where you can go to find your best match and avoid running into the high-maintenance, clingy gold-diggers that play head games and waste your time.
* The simplest and most alluring way to start a conversation with a girl who is giving you “the vibe”
* The most important question that will reveal if the girl you’re talking to is going make a positive impact on your life or whether she’ll kill your career, confidence and your character.
* How to avoid not knowing if a woman is curious about you and finally be able to recognize direct signals that can get you their number with ease
* What is really causing women not to notice you and how to fix it immediately to become a lot more conspicuous to women
* The simplest way to prevent your mind from going blank in conversations and how to make her beg for your attention
Subscribe here to get ‘Michael’s Dating Wisdom’ daily in your inbox!
Michael Thompson
Dating Consultant