I’ve been abusing alcohol to overcome my shyness, but I can’t remember anything the next morning.

A reader asks…

“Michael, I’m 20 years old and really shy among people I don’t know, especially women. It’s getting worse and worse that I’m having trouble connecting with women.

I’ve never had a real girlfriend, just a few affairs when I was drunk. I can’t approach women, I can’t even say hi without over analyzing things creating problems that’s not even there.

I feel like a total loser and afraid if I don’t solve this problem I will be alone forever.

Can you please help me?”

— Blake, TX

The only way to kill your shyness problem is to put yourself out there with women. It’s not going to be easy at first, but it will get better once you start doing it.

Your problem is you’re assuming the worse without knowing the truth. How can you truly know the outcome of something if you don’t even go through with it?

Hope this helps.

In the meantime, if you want a better solution than a beer belly and blackouts to overcome your shyness, then you need to sign up for Michael’s Dating Wisdom Newsletter here:

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Michael Thompson