There’s no need to be with her if you still feel isolated, what’s the point?

I read in a forum today…

“Me and my girlfriend have been together a few years but the past 6 months she has progressively had less to do with me. It started with calls then me taking her home and now she barely texts me and works a job somewhere else when she used to never want to leave because I worked there too.

We had a good past few weeks but last week she canceled Thursday to take extra work hours and Friday to work as well and then on Saturday.

I took her to work and she asked me to get her from work and then cancelled 4 hours beforehand to take a ride with her mom (she’s an adult) and it made me feel insulted and angry and made me blow up.

I just feel lonely and want to stop spending my days off alone and I tell her and she promises she’ll make it up but never does and it feels like she just sleeps or works and then paints how I feel as I have anger issues.

I love her more than anything when she is around or calls etc but I’m feeling lonely and went on Tinder to just have someone, anyone to talk to or maybe feel like I was important.

All I really want is to feel important to her and appreciated and I don’t know if I’m wrong to feel this way or if I’m a bad boyfriend.”

— Ab455

What’s the point in dating a woman that doesn’t make you happy? I don’t get it with you guys.

Yes, she’s pretty, nice body, have great sex and a nice personality (probably you first nice looking girlfriend) but why stay when it’s making you miserable.

You don’t eat properly, can’t focus on your career and you on dating apps looking for another woman to make you feel like the woman you investing yourself in should be doing.

If she’s not doing her damn job, bring it to her attention and if she continues not to do her job…Fire her ass.

It’s that simple because there are too many (I can’t express this enough) women out there looking for a great guy like you.

You have to know what you deserve and what you shouldn’t tolerate.

Evidently, something or someone is more important than you and she just rather drags you along until you finally open your eyes.

The moment you start blaming yourself for her action get the hell out.

That’s why choosing a woman based on things that make you happy is so important.

Once you find her appearance attractive enough, her body how you like it, you have to go really deep into her psychology to see if she’s the type of woman you want to spend time with.

Dating is suppose to be fun.

Yes, you will have disagreements but they will be things that you can work out together.

It’s part of the process of learning about each other, but that only happens if you are on the same page before you even go on a first date.

Times have change and you really need to get up to speed about this dating game.

It’s so much weird shit going on and too many of the wrong things can happen to you.

So I wouldn’t be taking who I date lightly…that’s just me.

You have to make that choice for yourself.

And if you have no clue of what I’m talking about or how to even do it, then subscribe to my Dating Wisdom Newsletter by clicking the link below:

Subscribe here to get ‘Michael’s Dating Wisdom’ daily in your inbox!

 

Michael Thompson
Dating Consultant