Have you ever given a woman an ultimatum, if you did, you really need to read this?
I was listening to the radio station 94.1 the beat yesterday and they had a guy called in asking for their help to ask a woman out.
The guy seems confident, saying that she was smoking hot and felt he was ready to take it to the next level.
Before the call, the radio host asked him did he know what he was going to say and he said yes.
Alright, lets make the call.
The phone rings twice and the girl answers.
He opens with a greeting and she answers back, then he goes on to ask her out.
This is what he says verbatim (I apologize if I don’t say it all), “I know we have been texting back and forth, but I feel I’m ready to take it to the next level with you and take you on a proper date.
The girl replies, “ok.”
Then he comes back and says, “But before we do I need you to agree to 6-months celibacy.”
To make a long story short, the girl ended up telling him, he really got a messed up ego and to go straight to hell.
When I heard that my mouth dropped wide open and I started laughing so hard until I started to cry.
Even though I was laughing, I’m telling you about this story because it’s so many lessons for you to learn, but I’m going to point out the one I think is most important.
And it is:
Never, Ever give a woman an ultimatum even if you are dating her, its the first sign of you being insecure and controlling.
And it’s the same for you if a woman gives you one.
I hope you take this advice seriously.
Now on to getting you a date.
Clearly, you already know what not to do, just let this guy be a prime example.
Unlike this guy, you might not have a girl number you like yet and texting back and forth on a regular basis.
You probably struggle with what you should be saying to a woman to get her to say yes to that first date.
I know it can seem very complicated but it’s much more simple than you think.
It all just comes down to being able to communicate effectively with women.
I don’t have to convince you that women love to talk, even the one you like.
You just have to know how to get her to talk, gain enough interest to want to hang out with you.
And in this era, it doesn’t start with how much money you have, what car you drive or what kind of house you live in.
Doesn’t mean you can be broke. (what good are you to anybody including yourself)
Anyhow,
Sure you might get a few chicks here and there for fun, but the type of quality women I’m talking about is not so easily influenced because they can get the materialistic things themselves.
That’s why you need to switch things up a bit.
They want a man that can challenge their minds, show he has a purpose in her other than how she looks and wanting to just fuck.
Being able to have an intriguing conversation with a woman can be a major turn on for her, that if you know what to say.
That’s where my Dating Wisdom Newsletter comes in to give you the advantage over other men.
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Michael Thompson
Dating Consultant