It’s about damn time you get like this guy.
I read in a forum today…
“I think dating is an official waste of time now. I’m reverting back to old school and taking the advice of some vets here. I’m going to get off my a$$, stop moping about my ex and do something about myself.
I have two bottom teeth that are missing (it’s not like you can see it anyway) and that’s number 1 priority. I’m taking care of that, reworking my wardrobe and changing my attitude.
I live in a populated area and here I am in front of a computer and I wonder why nothing has happened.
The next girlfriend (and there will be a next because I refuse for my ex to be the last) is going to have me at 100%.
The next girlfriend will not make every day about her.
She will actually ask if I’m doing alright once and a while.
She will understand that it goes both ways and will not be subjecting me to a list of demands.
Basically what I’m saying is…it will be normal.
Imagine that?
I deserve better but only if I change my ways first. It’s my fault for being so accepting of anyone just out the fear of being alone.
It’s nonsense.
I recently quit smoking for 27 years last month.
I did it with no personal support.
Nobody to lean on.
Nothing but me and my own head and the lingering hate for my ex.
I used that hate as motivation.
I do deserve better. Now I’m going to get what I deserve.
And for some reason…I had to post it.”
— Coffeeguy
Bravo, Bravo…now you should consider getting in this guy’s mindset because he is right about a few things.
1. He needs to stop moping and get off his ass
2. He needs to change his attitude
3. He’s in a populated area and sitting behind a computer nothing is going to happen
What I don’t agree with…is dating is a waste of time. (unless you doing it all wrong and with the wrong person)
And I’m sure that’s how you are feeling too right now.
The only difference between you and him is that you are here on my newsletter where you can learn about my Dating Wisdom Newsletter.
You don’t have to do it alone.
You don’t need your ex for hate motivation.
And you getting real-time advice straight from a vet.
Here’s the problem that he is going to run into but you can avoid:
Meeting selfish women. (he doesn’t know what to look for and don’t have a process of qualifying them)
So he’s pretty much going to keep attracting “it’s all about me women” while missing out on the down-to-earth, less stressful and fun to be around women.
That’s why you should never settle.
You deserve to be treated better than how the last woman treated you.
You deserve someone that’s going to be concern about your day and not make it all about them.
You deserve to have a woman that’s motivated and pushes you to your limits not someone that keeps dragging you down with them.
And most of all a woman that’s fun, energetic and that adds to your happiness and not take away from it.
If that’s what you are looking to attract…I got you.
It’s easier to say you’re going to do something, but it becomes much difficult to do when you don’t know how to.
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Michael Thompson
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