or do you have to make your own assumption?

I read in a forum today…

“I met a girl at a meetup today. We had pretty good conversations and connected well.

I asked her for her number and said that we should hang out sometime to which she said yes and gave me her number.

Now, in the context of the meetup, does she know that I’m interested in asking her out since I’m asking for her number?

Or is it possible that she thinks I’m looking for a friend since it is a meetup after all?

I can’t tell if she’s single or not.

Would she give out her number and agree to “hang out” if she has a boyfriend?”

— Frazzle

The worst part about dating is the “unknown.”

The less you know, the more worried you are, the more confused you look and the less confident you act.

When you trying to figure out the answer it becomes a burden until you actually can get it.

Because you have unanswered questions lingering in your head you are going to screw things up.

Why?

You don’t know how to approach this situation to get the answers you need to be able to move forward how you want.

Here’s what I would do in your situation.

I would immediately text her about the meetup (the reason for being there) and ask her do she usually come alone or with her boyfriend.

Boom.

Now you get your answer.

It’s that simple, nothing complicated. It’s very important to know certain information about a woman in dating.

The more you know, the better.

This is a prime example of not knowing how to get important information, can really sabotage everything for you because you would worry too much about things you can’t figure out on your on.

There’s no need to do all that, let her help you, just by knowing how to do it without it being a probing interview.

Let it be fun, full of laughs but very informative.

Anyways,

I hope you get my point.

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Michael Thompson
Dating Consultant