You can really screw up an easy win.
I read in a forum today…
“Tinder, I found someone I thought was attractive and apparently I had some appeal too.
We move to WhatsApp and it quickly becomes clear she is looking for some “fun”.
“Pick me up and we can go from there and I’ll show you while you drive”.
For being super keen I seemingly managed to turn her off completely. From “do you like big boobs?” to “ok lets rather meet sometime later this week.
This plainly defeats from an almost certain win, part of me is really disappointed, part of me probably knows in person she wouldn’t have wanted me anyway.
Do I try to warm her up again or simply just let it be?
Disappointing because as I say she is very attractive.
I just cannot seem to ever get this right.”
— ZA Dater
You completely messed up an easy win because you were afraid and in shock that you actually was talking to an attractive woman who you feel is clearly out of your league.
Which cause panic and not knowing how to respond back in a way to keep the fire burning, you actually took a bucket of dirt and smother the flame.
Good job man.
Here’s what you should of done.
Go with the flow and keep the sexual conversation going in a way that she wouldn’t even care how you look.
(eventually she like you already, Tinder is a two-way app)
Because by the time you got there to meet her, you would of easily had a wonderful time and setup a future date.
Ok enough!
I’m showing men how I stand on my two feet inside the dating world. And I’m doing it in my Dating Wisdom Newsletter.
Yes, you can have heated sexual conversations with lovely women without spoiling the fun.
And, without spending time regretting missed opportunities.
It’s easier than you think, too.
Like I said I’m showing men exactly how I do it.
Some of the information might be straight-forward and stuff you can knock yourself across the head about.
And, some information might be things you never thought of doing in a way that I show you.
All I’m saying that if you keep struggling to keep fires burning that women ignite with you, then you are always going to stay cold.
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Michael Thompson
Dating Consultant