Who ever said she can’t be the one if you have sex with her first?

A reader ask…

“Michael, I have a very pretty and attractive girl on my ski team that wants to hook up with me. She’s dropping serious hints, finding reasons to make eye contact with me and unnecessary reasons to ask for a ride home.

I know she just got out of a bad relationship and instead of just sleeping with her. I want to ask her out on a date to show her a very good time.

Should I reject her advances, hook up with her or be a gentleman and treat her to a date to get to know her?”

— Harry, CA

You should hook up with her first, be a gentleman next and then take her out on a date. Here’s why?

I believe sex is the fourth most important factor in a relationship after God, Trust and communication. Most may disagree, but it’s what I believe.

Make sure you are sexually compatible with her before you decide to play prince charming. It won’t matter how pretty and attractive she is if y’all are complete opposites in the bed. You will be wasting your time and hers because give or take a few months later the relationship will end.

Let her take them panties off for you and if she pass the sexual compatibility test, then your next move is to ask her out on a date and be that gentleman.

But if you want to learn how to really get to know her before your big night and not compromise your chances being a nice guy. You might want to sign up to read Michael’s Dating Wisdom Newsletter:

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Michael Thompson