As long as her mouth stays close, you will always fail.

I read in a forum today…

“Ever since I was in high school or college I’ve noticed it’s incredibly rare for a woman to approach me or even exchange pleasantries. It’s incredibly frustrating and I can’t understand why that is?

I’m not ugly or mean, as a matter of fact (and I’m not trying to brag) but I was a fashion model in NYC for 3 years between the ages of 19-22, I’m 26 now. I sometimes wonder if it’s my size since I’m 6’3 190 with a real athletic build so maybe I scare women?

I notice it in work a lot. It seems to be the more attractive the woman, the less likely they are to try and talk to me. I even play on a softball team at my work and these women just avoid me like the plague. It’s really strange and I can’t wrap my head around it.

I know I sound like I have some confirmation bias and I probably do to some extent, but hell, saying Hi or exchanging pleasantries is a two-way street isn’t it?

What could be the reason for this?”

— jgraham11

I used to struggle with the same thing before. I would always see a pretty lady, speak and be ignored
like I didn’t even exist to her.

When this is constantly happening to you, it can really be discouraging and have you really looking into the mirror trying to figure out what you are doing so wrong.

The funny thing is, you’re going about it the wrong way.

The question you should be asking is “what can I do different that may get a response?”

Always remember this, if you are trying something and it’s not working, then do the exact opposite of it.

Meaning,

If you always speak to certain women and they never speak back, stop trying to communicate with those type of women.

Don’t waste your energy or a single breath to acknowledge someone that thinks you are completely invisible.

That’s my piece of advice one, but I have a second piece that you can try, but it ain’t for the weak minded.

If this woman is someone you really like and you just have to see if you got a chance to be with her but you just can’t get her to talk back.

Remember, I said this is going to take some real balls to do and if you pull it off it can be very rewarding.

You ready?

When you see her again, walk up to her and say; may I ask you two questions?

Why every time you see me you give me the perception that I broke your heart?

She will give you an answer.

Then ask her the second question no matter what the answer is, then why is it that when I try to speak to you, you make facial expressions like I just said something disrespectful?

She will respond and when she does, that’s your chance to keep the conversation flowing and then easily take control and guide it to where you want it to go with her.

It’s not simple to pull off of course, if you don’t have a clue what you’re doing and know
where you want the conversation to go.

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Michael Thompson
Dating Consultant