Do women think you’re boring as fuck?

I read in a forum today…

“I’m just trying to figure out what went wrong because it has happened to me twice in one week now, both were online dates.

With the first date, I managed to talk me into getting invited by her to her house within the same day and she would cook for me.

Perhaps not the best choice since I would have night shift that day and had to go early.

The day after I messaged her that I had a good time, she said she did as well and asked how my work day was and I asked if she was home already from work but got no response to that.

At a later time, I invited her to have drinks together but still no answer and I never got an answer yet.

The second date is the one that is bugging me the most.

Yesterday I had a few drinks with this woman and everything seemed to be great. We basically talked non stop, she stroked the neck of her glass of wine etc. and the date took 2.5 hours.

We both took the bus to the center of the city, so at the end of the date, we walked to the bus station.

I did not see a good opportunity to kiss her so I just kissed her on the cheeks and said goodbye to her.

It was pretty late so I just asked if she arrived home safely but she did not respond to that until the next day saying “I did, thanks for asking” then I messaged her that I had a great time and would like to meet her again.

And….yes you’ve guessed it, no response to that. I messaged this 9 hours ago now.

You know, I can take a rejection, it’s not a big deal for me.

What I don’t like is hearing nothing back from them.

Just tell me that you don’t like me, that’s all.”

— Kevinehv

Ok, so he said he can take rejection but he’s writing about them not answering.

Anyways,

My question would be to him, in both of his dates, what did he actually talk about with these women?

Especially, the 2.5 hours date. I mean I could think of plenty of stuff fun I could be doing rather than get a cramp in my butt watching a woman drink wine.

My point is…

…Don’t be like this guy when you go on dates. Times has changed a lot in the dating world.

All those cliche conversations is done, finished, out-of-date.

You have to be able to keep a woman on her toes, make her think about shit
in ways, she never thought of.

You have to be different than the average Joe trying to get with her.

How?

Have conversations that challenge women minds but also reveal things you want to know to decide to continue or discontinue her.

And guess what?

It takes less than 30 minutes to do so you don’t waste all your day with someone that you don’t want or who don’t want you.

Stop asking women for closure because you are never going to get it.

I went to a therapist to find that out.

Instead, learn how to move on to the next one until you get the one that feeling you as you are feeling her.

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Michael Thompson
Dating Consultant