Needy, clingy and aggravating, is that type of woman you want to date?

I read in a forum today…

“This has been a really crazy year for me.

After a lifetime of never having a girlfriend, not to mention never truly getting laid (previously my sole source of sex was by paying for it if you know what I mean.)

I have in the course of 6 months plowed through 3 girlfriends who I had normal consensual sex with.

And I can tell you, having a girlfriend and all that is truly overrated. It’s really more trouble than it’s worth.

First one was a crazy one, the second was a psycho and the third one (married) and the current one is beautiful but bothersome.

In the past, I thought once I get properly laid, it would be a life-changer for me.

I thought I would be more confident, that I no longer would be depressed.

But here I am, still, the depressed, insecure guy that I always used to be.

I’ve now finally gotten a taste of what’s it’s like to have a girlfriend, to go out and hold hands, and to kiss a girl.

Aside from the first time I did it, it all felt so mundane.

Now it’s even worse.

I have to put up with my girlfriends constant back and forth of loving me and rejecting me.

Some days she wants to break up, some days she never wants to leave me.

I’m just feeling tired of all of this.

Really, I feel no difference in my state of mind.

I still have no confidence and I still have this lingering depression.”

— The-Alchemist

A relationship should be fun, exciting and full of new experiences with the person you are sharing it with.

Not full of pain, arguing and depression.

But it happens.

Actually, it happens all the time to men like you, who are experiencing a relationship for the first time.

Why?

You’re in the moment.

You have you’re first ever girlfriend maybe to a woman, deep down you still feel you don’t deserve.

It’s like a new high for you, plus you’re happy and not alone anymore.

Then a few weeks in, you find out she’s the devils daughter.

And what do you do now.

This is what happen when you settle for any woman, just to have a woman.

You can really get involve with a woman that’s very needy, clingy, crazy or just a plan o’l psycho. (yes they really exist)

Before you go out and try to find you a woman to date, you need to really sit down and determine exactly what it is that you like and is looking for in a partner.

This is so crucial to the outcome as you can see from the guy above.

Anyways,

Going through my experience with a really jealous, clingy, needy and crazy chick. (and yes she was all of them)

I realize how important this step was for me and for guys like you.

I actually map out the only things men really need to know about a woman to ENSURE he will have a great experience with her once he found her.

This process will pretty much guarantee you will have happier moments and less bad ones with whatever woman you choose to have a relationship with.

I wrote it all down in a newsletter I called Michael’s Dating Wisdom.

It’s a very simple newsletter that helps you learn how to approach women with confidence, start the most intriguing conversations while qualifying her as a potential partner.

You no longer have to settle for unstable women, deal with excessive drama and jealous women anymore instead you can date women that wants only you, drama free and a whole lot of fun to be around.

Avoid getting unnecessary headaches, constant dumping and feeling more depressed and enjoy more of being around her, feeling secure and excited about your future together.

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Michael Thompson
Dating Consultant