Monthly Archives: December 2016

She Is Dying To Get To Know You

They say “curiosity kills the cat.” A reader ask… “Michael, How do I get people to like me, especially women. It seems like they don’t even care I exist. I tried the “care for people and they care for you back,” didn’t work. How can I get a woman to want to get to know me?” — […]

I Became An Alcoholic To Talk To Women

I’ve been abusing alcohol to overcome my shyness, but I can’t remember anything the next morning. A reader asks… “Michael, I’m 20 years old and really shy among people I don’t know, especially women. It’s getting worse and worse that I’m having trouble connecting with women. I’ve never had a real girlfriend, just a few affairs when I […]

Unlucky, Unattractive And Still Single

Most men think they just have bad luck, but they really don’t. A reader ask… “Michael, I have come to the conclusion that lucky people are attractive. Unlucky people are unattractive and less liked. I’m one of those unlucky people. It’s already painful enough that I’m single, unhappy and unlucky, yet people treat me like crap. It happens […]

Reindeers, Elves And Sexy Women

This is the most important secret to dating a beautiful woman. A reader asks… “Michael, What does a guy have to do and be like to attract a beautiful woman?” — Anthony, LA Talk to them and be yourself. Also flirt, be interesting, sexually attractive, communicate clearly, connect deeply, disqualify and qualify women to find the perfect one […]

The Nice Guy Never Gets The Girl… (it’s a lie)

I always believed the “atypical” nice guy was destine to live alone and frustrated. A reader ask… “Michael, I have just turned 30 this month and haven’t so much been on a date, much less actually had a girlfriend. I have a decent job, I’m independent, I stay fit through mixed-martial arts and if a woman was interested in me […]

Oh Deer! Please Put Me Back Together Again

Are some people too broken to have a significant other? A reader ask… “Michael, I am beginning to believe that I’m simply too broken to get into a relationship. I don’t see no women finding me attractive enough to date, I don’t see myself being a good boyfriend and I think I would be terrible in bed. What […]

Being Alone Is Killing Me Softly

Not have any luck with the ladies, let’s change that today. A reader ask… “Michael, I have not been having any luck with the ladies my whole life. I never had a girlfriend, I don’t have any friends and being alone is completely killing me softly. My depression, anxiety and social phobia makes it hard for me to […]

How To Use Your Hobbies To Date More Women

You are over complicating things too much, stop it. A reader ask… “Michael, I have a job, money (not rich) and pretty decent health. I still find myself with no friends to hangout with and no girlfriend to build a life with. I feel hopeless that I may never have a decent relationship with a woman. I learn […]