A reader ask…
“Michael, lately I have been in depression and I feel it’s getting worse. I pitty myself.
I’m in my early twenties, almost finish with college and I can shamelessly admit that I’ve never had a real relationship.
I’ve been broken inside since a couple of years ago since my first taste at love with all the butterflies and anxiety.
But I was young, naive and screwed it up by confessing my love to her early and she didn’t feel the same way about me.
Since then my luck has been bad with women. They would give me their number but only to friend zone me. Getting rejected is not a great feeling at all.
I just want someone to love, care about me, hold hands, you know all the romantic stuff that people do in a real relationship.
I’m scared and desperate right now. I don’t want to end up lonely forever. I’m not picky at all anymore. I just want someone, anyone will do.
I cry myself to sleep which is the worst part. Michael, I need help please.”
— Antoine, MD
Antoine I’ve been in that desperate state before and that’s not a good place for anybody to be.
There is still hope for you even in your darkest moment.
But you want to avoid a few mistakes that you are about to make, like not being picky anymore and saying anyone will do.
If you just looking for anybody, then get a puppy at least they can’t do any wrong to you.
Now, if you looking for a life time partner, then you have to really know what you want and go after it.
We all took rejection and it’s not the end of the world, you just have to know why you’re being rejected, friend zoned by women and correct it.
Right now, your self-esteem is real low and you have to find a way to pick it up fast, because how you feel reflects off on people you are around.
Maybe this quote will give you hope.
“Your Life Only Gets Better When You Do. Work On Yourself And The Rest Will Follow.”
— Anonymous
And if you need help working on yourself to improve your game at getting real dates that could eventually lead to a real relationship.
Then I encourage you to sign up to read Michael’s Dating Wisdom Newsletter here:
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Michael Thompson