Have you ever been catfished online before?
Being catfish online is when you are talking online to someone that is portraying to be someone else by using their pictures on their profile as if it was really them.
It’s no joke and if you been trying to do online dating, then you know exactly what I mean.
It’s easy to become a victim of this.
I have been a victim of this.
Being shy and all sitting behind a computer gives you confidence that you just don’t have if you were standing right in front of her.
This makes you vulnerable of being catfish online because you are in your own little fantasy world thinking you have a better chance of talking to beautiful women behind a computer screen.
While hanging out with your friends, they start bragging about this new dating site where they are talking to all these hot chicks.
I mean they are showing you profile pictures of women that can be models.
They are just like you…
shy, boring, uninteresting, freeze up in front of women and has little to no confidence in themselves.
So you start thinking, if they can do it, so can I.
This makes you really curious, so you get the website from them.
When you get home filled with excitement.
You hop online to sign up for your free account, write a brief description and then add a picture of yourself to complete your profile.
You spend hours looking through profiles of women in your area, especially all the beautiful ones that you like.
You write about fifty women in a four hour span before you go to bed anxious to see what kind of results you get by morning.
You wake up and see that you got one message from a woman that profile says she is “5’4, 130 lbs, brown skin complexion, medium black hair, nice athletic body and no kids.
She is freaking beautiful in her pictures.
You are thinking to yourself, I can’t wait to tell the boys who I’m talking too.
You and her are consistently communicating through messages back and forth for about two weeks.
One Friday night you finally ask her to meet up and she agrees.
You and her agree to meet up for coffee at Barnes & Noble around 2 p.m. on a Saturday evening.
Barely getting any sleep last night, you wake up ready for your big day.
Because you are super excited about your meeting today, you take you a hot nice shower around 11:30 am.
Then you put on your nice clothes making sure you don’t have any wrinkles…
shoes are super clean… (you’re making sure there is not one speck of dirt on your shoes, especially not today).
Finally that designer cologne you have been dying to wear to impress a gorgeous woman with so she knows you like to smell good, you spray more than enough of it on you.
By 1 pm you are ready to go.
You want to arrive at least thirty minutes early to be able to greet her when she shows up…
plus you need to stop by the gas station to get some mints to have your breath on point.
So you grab your keys and head to your car.
You reach Barnes & Noble right at 1:35 pm and choose a seat right by the window not to far from the door.
Then you take out your phone and pull up her profile pictures so that you can confirm it’s her when you see her arrive.
You can’t believe you just pulled this gorgeous woman off this website.
This is easier than embarrassing yourself stuttering and being lost for words as if you were trying to pick her up in person.
All of sudden this woman starts walking towards you and you are not really paying her any attention because she looks nothing like the woman in the pictures.
Maybe she just some random women coming to read a book or something.
But as she gets closer to you, she calls your name and that’s when it hit you it was her.
This woman is 5’4, 190 lbs, dark-skinned complexion, short brown hair and overweight.
Disappointment slapped you so hard, that you couldn’t move one single muscle.
So you try and stay for a few minutes because you didn’t want to be rude.
As you and her are talking you ask “who picture is on your profile?” because clearly it wasn’t her.
She answers and says “that’s my cousin.” without any remorse of her deception.
Crazy right.
She really needs to be rebuke.
This happens all the time to men like you who just looking for a honest and beautiful woman to get to know, but feel you can only make this happen with overly-hyped dating sites filled up with these dishonest women.
As a matter of fact,
It will happen too you again if you continue to depend on online dating sites to find your girl.
That’s why you need to develop the natural skills of communicating with women just by being interesting and being yourself.
This might seem nearly impossible for you right now, but it’s much easier than you think.
I don’t know about you, but being catfished online is embarrassing and time wasting especially when you can just walk up to a beautiful attractive woman that you can see is really her.
Strike up a conversation, get her number and hangout the next day.
It’s that simple and this actually can be your reality.
If you can follow a very simple formula and actually apply what you learn.
No more being catfished online for you.
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Michael Thompson