Thinking a woman can’t live without you is insane, of course, you can be replaced.

I read in a forum today…

“Hello !! So me(23 years old male) and my girlfriend dated for 6 years, we were the ideal couple for most of our friends. Everything was great while we were in a relationship we used to be there for each other in every condition.

We were in college when we started dating we respected each other’s privacy needs and dislikes.

She used to say that I am the best thing that has happened to her and the way I stood beside her no one really does.

But as college ends we became postgraduate she started making excuses to stay away from me. I asked her if it’s the time for us to inform our parents so that we can take our relationship one step further to that and she said yes.

Then one day she called me and said not to contact her anymore as her parents said no to our relationship later I found out that it was a lie she never asked her parents. I was heartbroken at that time cried for a month..

She was out of states for 9 months where she made new male friends and started hanging out with them more than she did with me. I told her to stay away if she can’t commit to me as it destroys me mentally.

She still maintained contact with me I thought she also was unable to live without me that’s why she was styaing in contact. We talked daily afterward even though she used to be rude on calls. She used to treat me as if it’s my fault to love her.

That continued for 4 months now and I find myself again trapped by her checking daily
to see if she has messaged me or something but she doesn’t. She took that time while talking with me to get over me whereas here I am feeling more and more attached to her.

I love her a lot we never had a serious fight I have done things for her that even
her parents won’t ever do, cared for her like a baby of mine and still she chooses to
just go away. It hurts me a lot and I need help from you guys to either get over her or to
make her realize how good our love is as she still confirms that she still loves me?”

— ghoda088

This is what happens when you let the word “love” control your life.

Yes, everyone wants to be loved by their significant other, but you can’t let them abuse the word without any kind of concrete actions behind it.

And,

His biggest mistake is he cared for her like a baby of his, (I’m not sure if he even has a child) but that’s a unusual type of love to have for a girlfriend.

Anyways, my advice to you…

If you are currently or when you do go through a period with a girl you are dating where she starts to ignore you and pulling away…don’t cry and mope about it, it’s time to find a replacement for her.

Yes, I get 6 years is a lot of time invested in someone and it’s hard to just let it go.

How could you when you love her so much and she says she loves you?

Here’s a little insight on what a person that loves you would actually do:

1. show you every day

2. talk about problems and find a resolution for them (it can’t be that bad)

3. want to spend as much time with you when possible

4. never have you questioning just how important you are to her

And, a little insight of a woman that’s not truly in love with you would actually do:

1. take small petty things and blow them up into an argument

2. make time for others before acknowledging you

3. not emotionally invested as you are

4. would say the “I love you” when she either wants something or trying to avoid something

Now, I don’t know what kind of women you are into but you are going to meet more of them that’s in the second category unless you know how to filter your prospects.

That’s another thing, you have some many choices that one woman should never make your life stop just to wait to see if she want’s to be part of it.

Yes, you will be in some pain, but don’t let it depress you. Take it as a lesson learned and move on to the next.

That’s where you truly find out what type of woman you don’t want.

The best way to get back at an ex to find someone that actually makes you happy and is genuine about it.

Karma is a bitch, so you don’t have to worry she will get her’s back.

So if you are still lingering about an old ex, it’s time to stop and move on with your life.

Meet a few women, I promise you’ll feel a whole lot better.

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Michael Thompson
Dating Consultant