First kiss at 29…now what?

I read in a forum today…

“I met this girl on an online dating app. We’ve gone out a few times, I like her and we enjoy each other’s company.

During the third date we ended up at the store and as we were walking around chatting and hit the pharmacy aisle she puts condoms in the cart.

The issue is that I don’t have much dating experience.

I’ve gone on dates here and there but nothing ever serious, plus its never gotten to the point that I’ve kissed anyone at 29.

I’m always overthinking things and quite shy/inhibited when it comes to girls.

It took me a while to get over awkward hugs so that date ended awkwardly with me making an excuse to go home.

Now I don’t know how much I should open up about my lack of experience in terms of dating, sex etc.

Clearly, this is leading towards one direction and I’m really enjoying dating for the first time but I’m not sure how to approach it.

If you’re a woman what would you prefer?”

— Random_AsianDude

Dating is like riding a bicycle when you’re doing it for the first time, you have training wheels on until you get the hang of it.

Once you’re comfortable, the wheels come off and you scrape your knees a few times, but you become much better at it.

You sometimes do tricks on it, ride it on one wheel and jump across things. (it depends how much you get into bike riding)

But, you had steps to learn until you were able to perfect that skill.

It’s the same with women when you doing it for the first time.

You don’t know how to act around them, what to say to them, read body languages, read in between lines, did she mean this instead of that.

All this is new for you.

So it can get very overwhelming and cause you to screw up a lot of things. But you know what…

Everybody has been inexperience before and it’s something you shouldn’t lose sleep over.

You don’t have to tell experienced women that it’s your first time, they will be able to pick that up for themselves.

You just need to focus on enjoying the moments, figuring out the direction you want to take things with this girl and in the background get up to speed on your dating skills in private.

There are a lot of them to learn and master but learning how to do the basics first would make things much clearer and easier down the line for you.

That’s why I highly recommend my Dating Wisdom Newsletter for all inexperience and experience men. You’ll discover in an hour how to put a chokehold on this dating game to your benefit.

How powerful would it be for you to be able to know what kind a response a woman would give you if you asked her something?

You would feel like a psychic right?

And you know what else, you would be a super confident person.

Yes, there’s flirting, seduction and of course sex, but none of that happens unless you know how to talk to women in certain ways when each moment presents itself.

It’s a simple thing to do, but the hardest if you have no clue how to do it effectively.

Having the skills to be anywhere, see a beautiful girl and have a conversation with her is powerful.

She might be someone you like or just someone you would like to be friends with.

The choice would be yours, something you didn’t have before.

If you want to learn my methods that can change you from feeling broken-down, unseen and ugly into appealing, fearless and a interesting person.

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Michael Thompson
Dating Consultant