Why commit to one woman when you can have fun with them all?

I read in a forum today…

“After trying and failing to find something long term, at a certain point I stopped caring about finding a relationship and just focused on having sex with as many women as I can.

Honestly, I hated traditional dating, making awkward conversation across a table, etc, and getting no second dates out of it.

So for the last couple of years, I’ve mostly just been looking for sex/one night stands.

I’ll have sex with a woman and generally leave it at that, then on to the next one.

Sometimes they come back for repeats, but it’s rare that I sleep with someone more than once.

I’m upfront with the women I meet that don’t really enjoy dates, and sex is pretty much all I’m interested in.

Recently I was scheduled to meet up with a woman I’d had sex with in the past, but after she cancelled the second time this week, I lost interest and blocked her, probably more out of annoyance than anything, I felt like she was wasting my time.

Another girl I slept with a couple of weeks ago has been kinda passing hints about doing something on valentine’s. I kinda liked her, but I don’t know if I’m into that kind of hokey dating stuff.

That may mean I won’t see her again if what she wants is a relationship.

Are some people just not romantic, or is this a permanent condition/just the way I am at this point?”

— Redguitar35

Boy oh boy, aren’t you just having the time of your life. No one to answer too, free to do whatever you want and not worry about feeling guilty afterwards.

That’s the life every man wants right?

Wrong.

It’s fun having sex with different women every other night, for awhile, then it get’s boring.

Because it no longer stays fun when it starts to feel like a job, think about it.

Every night you have to go meet a few women to find the one that just really having a bad night and want to let off some steam because of shitty day or a bad break up.

You might get lucky on the first try, but extremely rare.

But here’s the problem with that kind of life if you’re not getting paid for it.

You start feeling empty, because the sex is just sex.

While the sex is happening, it’s fun, exciting and you’re having a good time, but the moment it’s over…you’re back to the real world again.

Lonely, miserable and unhappy.

No matter how much you feel that your life would be great if you could just sleep with as many women as you want and you’re be fine with that.

You really won’t be and here’s why.

Eventually you will get older, wiser and realize that you waste all your time and money searching for pussy when all you had to do is find a nice partner that can give you as much sex as you want along with the other perks and benefits like:

1. cook for you
2. support you
3. take care of you when you’re sick
4. give you a family
5. create lasting memories with
6. have a best friend
7. fuck your brains out and not worry about catching an std (she has to be a loyal girl)

I could go on for days, but you get my point.

Yea, it’s good to have as much sex with as many women as you want and I encourage you to do it if that makes you happy.

But when that high finally comes down (and it will) and you see life in a whole different perspective.

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Michael Thompson
Dating Consultant