Is she really that pretty you can’t tell her how bad her shit stinks?

I read in a forum today…

“This girl and I have been together for a few months, but we were friends for about a year before that.

Over the last couple weeks, I’ve been put off by her selfishness. I’ve spent every other day over at her house since we’ve started dating, while she’s only been to my house twice.

We both still live with our families, and I’ve tried to get to know them and form bonds with them while she hasn’t made any attempt with mines.

It’s a tradition that my family throws a super bowl party, and I told her it was important to me that she comes, but she flaked on that too.

Instead, saying I should come over and watch it with her and her mom.

She usually flakes on me whenever it’s something I want to do.

I bought movie tickets a week ago for a movie I’ve been dying to see. She said she’d go with me. 15 minutes before the movie starts, she calls me and flakes.

Another time I invited her over for a big family dinner (I’ve attended many her family has had, but this was going to be her first). An hour beforehand she says she’s caught up in a project at home and can’t come.

She tells me to just come over to her house instead.

Also, she’s selfish in bed.

Both of us orgasm the best from oral.

And the past few times I’ve made her orgasm and then she’s said she’s exhausted and fell asleep, not caring at all if I had an orgasm.

I do like this girl and think we have good chemistry. However, I know I need to bring this issue up as soon as possible, I just haven’t had to do this in a relationship before.

Looking for a delicate way to bring it up to her.

— Letmein

Sounds to me you got your hands full or maybe not. You have a girl that thinks the world revolves around her and even yours.

Her shit smells like roses to her but you know it stinks like hell.

It’s only been a few months, but she’s showing you what type of woman she really is and if it things you don’t like, then they should be considered red flags for you.

You better open your mouth and say something real quick.

This is what I would do in your situation if I was you.

I would go to her house and tell her that if she doesn’t start putting the same effort into this relationship as me, then I’m gone.  And just monitor for the next month if things changes or still the same.

It’s that simple. (At least you giving her the benefit of the doubt since you really like her)

If she’s still being selfish, just cut her ass off and be done with it.

There are PLENTY of women out there that’s willing to come over to your place, come to dinners and get to know your family, respect things that are important to you and not waste your time and money.

If you need help finding her, then check out my Dating Wisdom Newsletter. It will show you just how to locate, attract and get her number to get the ball rolling.

It would be crazy to let a woman walk all over you and not even take things you like into consideration.

Why settle for less, be taken for granted and never appreciated when you can enjoy a woman that’s everything you desire, attentive to things you like and thankful for a guy like you in her life.

It’s 2018 man, you need to make your stance early in a relationship, and it’s much easier to do with a woman that you’re compatible with.

You’re good though, I give you that…because the moment she started sabotaging the sex I was out.

Don’t let her start giving you blue balls man.

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Michael Thompson
Dating Consultant