Did you get catfished?

I read in a forum today…

“I’ve registered in an international dating site with matchmaking services called A Foreign Affair.

The site allowed me to meet a ton of beautiful women and I have started to correspond with them.

For 4 months now, I’ve been in a continuous correspondence with Elena.

She’s fluent in English and she’s only 7 years younger than me.

She is independent and even has her own business.

She’s nice, sweet and gorgeous… pretty much the perfect girl for me.

So, I’ve decided to ask her to do Skype calls with me.

I want to be able to talk with her while seeing each other face to face for a change.

She hasn’t responded since I sent that letter, so now I wonder if I scared her off or if that is her way of saying she doesn’t want to…and now I wonder when is the right time to ask for video calls?

I’ve never done online dating and I’m new to this.

If it’s true that I might not be able to hear from Elena after the letter, then I want to know when is the right time so I won’t make the same mistake. I need some advice!!!”

— HandSomeMan045

First of all, NEVER spend four months talking to someone you haven’t seen on video chat or met in person ESPECIALLY online.

Here’s why…

There are a lot of women that have low-self esteem, lonely, miserable and just want to find someone to talk too so they find a beautiful girl picture and creates a profile.

Now you come along all excited to see her picture, writes her and she responds.

If it’s your first time ever doing online dating, then you about to have an orgasm from the rush of seeing a new message in your inbox.

But to answer the question…

…No, you will not hear back from her because you got catfished for four months.

That’s a lot of time wasted.

Here’s what you do next time.

Always ask to video chat after the 5th day of chatting to confirm she is who she says she is.

If you don’t then this will happen to you again.

And BTW, one more thing: If you want to get into offline dating that’s catfished proof, my Dating Wisdom Newsletter shows plenty (extremely effective) secrets for getting dates I learned directly from my years of encountering women.

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Michael Thompson
Dating Consultant