Either you waste it or make great use of it.

I read in a forum today…

“I’m 27, met this girl at work that is 20 and I really like her but she has a boyfriend.

They have been dating for about 6 months and he lives in a different city.

I am a shy person so I asked a friend to tell her that I like her and after that, she
said that she would like to meet.

When we met, we just stayed in her car and talked for about 4 hours.

Anyway we kept talking and after 1 week I went to her place, watched a movie,
cuddled and she even got on top of me.

So I started massaging her back from under her shirt while kissing her neck and grabbed her ass from under her panties.

I tried to kiss her on the lips but she kinda kept her lips tensed.

The next day she said that she is sorry and that she wants to pretend like it never happened but the worst thing is that later that day she found out that I’ve been talking with the guys about the problems, she has with her boyfriend and she doesn’t wanna see me anymore.

After that, we didn’t speak at all to each other, not even at work.

Now she talks to another guy a lot, who she was talking to before anything happened between us. She said that they are just friends but I don’t know what to do.

Should I just keep my distance?”

— Ticaaa

Let that girl go man. You are completely wasting your time.

When you deal with a woman like that it’s a few things that you should automatically pick up.

1. she’s a cheater and can’t be trusted

2. if she did it to him, she will definitely do it to you no matter how good you are to her

3. you were just something to take her mind off of things for a brief moment

Why would you want a woman like that?

And talking for 4 hours…jeesh.

Let me ask you this, in the four hours what did you learn about her?

Probably nothing useful, just laugh and talk about unnecessary things that always get men put in the friend zone.

Face it…if you are not having a purposeful conversation, then you’re just being a shoulder to cry on and a safe place to vent.

Moral of the story?

Forget just talking about anything?

There are much better things to learn about a woman that she will take major noticed too and completely be amazed.

Don’t involve talking about how bad you both hate your jobs.

And it doesn’t even involve you trying to seem like a nice guy hoping she is enjoying herself and will give you a second meet up.

It does involve you really making it clear to yourself about what you want by being able to ask questions in a fun and intriguing way like:

What are her goals in life?

Do she want to have children or get married one day?

Is you and her sexually compatible?

Do you really want to date this girl?

Stuff that really matters to you and to her.

Don’t be fool by the bland conversations, fake laughs, and the sob boyfriend stories.

If you’re going to spend four hours talking to a woman, then why not make them count and I show you how to do when you subscribe below:

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Michael Thompson
Dating Consultant