Wasting your life fixated on a woman that is taken is pathetic and sad.

A reader asks…

“Michael, I’ve been in loved or fixated with a girl at my job for over a year now.

She’s with someone and she knows I like her. It’s gotten to the point that my manager had to talk to me about it.

But I don’t want to get over her even though I know nothing will ever happen between us.

I have nothing in life.

I have no friends, I’ve lost interest in things I used to like, I live in a rural area where there is nowhere to go and nothing to do.

I exist day in and day out with the same routine. I barely work with this girl so my constant boredom and self loathing keeps my mind off of her, but when I do see her I spiral back into anxiety.

I know that I could never make her happy if things were different because I have no clue how relationships work.

I don’t want to lose my job over this, but I don’t know what should I do.

How do I overcome unrequited love?”

— Matt L., Portland

Thanks for the question Matt. This is most common in the workplace of men, because that’s where you spend most of your time.

You see this beautiful woman that’s just so beautiful and instantly you feel that you are in love with her.

But is this really love or lust or fantasy?

When you are not interacting with women on a daily basis, your choices of a partner becomes very limited.

Do you want to continue fantasizing about a fake relationship or actually be in a real one?

You have to go out, meet a few women and get a real date.

Which I know you can do with the right guidance.

Are ready to stop feeling like a worthless loser and…ready to learn how to naturally talk to women with confidence while playing the numbers game…and find a nice woman to date?

This was the kind of frustration that made me start seeking out some of the more “bizarre” ways I used to get a date with women that I wrote down in Michael’s Dating Wisdom Newsletter.

What happened?

I became more confident in starting conversations with women that kept them interested.

I stood out from other men that approach them, because I wasn’t using cheesy pick up lines.

And I learned how to avoid paying dating sites for expensive fees for premium memberships that turned out to be useless and still got a beautiful chick.

This tip alone can make you more attractive to women instantly.

You can learn it today.

But you got to want it bad enough.

Do you?

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Michael Thompson