She is giving me mixed signals.

A reader asks…

“Michael, I’ve just started dating this girl and so far we have been on three dates. The first date was almost perfect.

It was really long, had great communication and ended with us kissing for about thirty minutes. On our second date we went to the movies and that ended with like a short kiss.

Our third date was pretty good also, we both had a good time and yet she pulled back from kissing pretty fast which was like thirty seconds.

I’m confused about why on our first date she was into our kissing and now it seems like when I try to kiss her on our other dates she pulls back pretty fast. I don’t think it’s my breath or kissing. Am I doing something wrong?”

— Avery, PA

Yes, you haven’t learn to read her body language yet and that’s why you are having the mixed signals. She invited you in and you stayed outside the door. (meaning you should of made your move on the first date)

Now you have her thinking she might have made a mistake even though she likes you. So you have to figure out a way to let her open up to you again and invite you back in.

That’s what overthinking does to you when you’re  in the heat of the moment with a chick you like.

Anyway, my point is this:

If you don’t learn how to read and understand the body language of a woman when she is showing you signs whether she’s interested in you or she is horny and waiting for you to take the lead.

Then you are always going to miss your opportunity, but force her to take a step back. This is why you need to sign up for Michael’s Dating Wisdom Newsletter here:

http://SeductiveBrother.com/Signup

Don’t make that mistake again.

If you do, you might lose her.

Michael Thompson