If you don’t open your mouth to talk to her, how can you get to know her?

A reader ask…

“Michael, I’m not sure what causes my shyness and panic attacks, but sometimes it grows to where I’m afraid to talk to a female convenience store cashier or waitress.

I think it stems from my fear of pestering someone by asking questions.

Women have gotten annoyed from my stuttering and panic attacks. They either tell me to “learn how to speak” or “you’re overreacting.”

I just need to learn how to find someone that I can relate to or won’t judge my problems.

Can you give me some advice?”

— Charlie, MA

You have to build your confidence Charlie and let me tell you why. The main reason you feel so shy and start panicking around women is because you feel intimidated by them.

When you are around a beautiful woman, your throat starts to tighten, anxiety starts to settle in and the panicking begins to affect your speech.

No man should feel intimidated by a woman because they are social creatures. Some may like you and some may not, that’s just reality.

But in order to find that one woman that won’t judge you. You have to open your mouth and stop acting like a chump.

Anyway, why I telling you this?

You are going to have to ask a woman questions to really get to know her.

There is just no way around it.

And if you want to learn the best way to do it with confidence, then you need to sign up for Michael’s Dating Wisdom Newsletter here:

http://SeductiveBrother.com/Signup

Shyness and panicking will become noexistence.

Anxiety attacks will no longer haunt you.

Alright.

Michael Thompson