I always believed the “atypical” nice guy was destine to live alone and frustrated.

A reader ask…

“Michael, I have just turned 30 this month and haven’t so much been on a date, much less actually had a girlfriend.

I have a decent job, I’m independent, I stay fit through mixed-martial arts and if a woman was interested in me she would approach me on her own. Then all I needed to do was make sure I’m worth the investment of time.

After going great lengths to improve myself as a person but finding myself more isolated romantically.

I feel quite resentment of a close friend of mine who has a very attractive, loving and devoted girlfriend who just had to be himself.

Where did I go so wrong?”

— Reginald, AU

Nothing is wrong with you, but something is wrong with what you are doing.

Your first mistake is never, never, ever let a woman determine if you are worth the investment of time. It should be you determining if she is worth your investment of time.

Second mistake is you are focusing on the wrong thing to improve your chances with women. Yea it’s good to be healthy and in good shape.

But none of that matter if you don’t know how to be yourself and show your personality when you are around women.

They don’t care about what you have, it’s the type of person you are.

Are you someone they enjoy being around or see themselves growing with?

That’s how you friend got his chick.

Anyway, if you want to land your first date and girlfriend.

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The choice is yours.

If you want to be the next nice guy that gets his girl, then this is where it starts.

Michael Thompson